Woman shot, killed by estranged husband in Streeterville murder-suicide had been posting about divorce, fears
CHICAGO (CBS) — This week, a girl was shot and killed by her estranged husband inside her Streeterville rental, and het man then took his personal life.
Before their deaths, the sufferer was open about their ongoing divorce – and wished to be a voice for others going by means of a tricky time.
CBS 2’s Charlie De Mar spoke Wednesday to individuals who knew the 29-year-old sufferer, Sania Khan.
Khan normally expressed herself behind the digicam. She was an expert photographer who moved to Chicago final June.
But in latest months, she had been in entrance of the lens on TikTok, the place she has brazenly documented her divorce from a person she describes as poisonous.
Khan additionally posted concerning the cultural stigma of divorce within the South Asian group. In one video she wrote: “Going through a divorce as South Asian woman feels like you failed at life sometimes.”
In one other publish, she stated: “It’s painful to walk away from someone you once loved. But it’s even more painful to love someone who is careless with your heart.”
On Monday, Khan was shot and killed inside her unit within the Grand Ohio rental advanced, 211 E. Ohio St. Sources say her ex-husband traveled to Chicago from Georgia, shot Khan, after which killed himself.
“Just speechless,” stated Justin Matarrese. “You don’t accept it as being true. It still doesn’t feel true. It feels really unfair.”
Khan was the photographer for a highschool mock trial staff. Matarrese obtained to know Khan in his function as government director of this system, Empire Mock Trial.
“Loving, compassionate, energetic, full of life – she made the kids feel special,” Matarrese stated. “You can feel her personality her very presence in all of her work.”
Kavita Dsouza is with Apna Ghar. The Chicago group works with survivors of gender-based violence.
“Divorce is a stigma in not just South Asian families, but also at large for many communities. Gender-based violence is about power and control – and that’s what unfortunately what we saw unfold on, Monday tragically,” Dsouza stated. “Lethality increases when somebody leaves a relationship, and the second time is when they get a divorce.”
A buddy of Khan’s wrote on Facebook: “My friend was someone who took all the right steps. She left. She had a restraining order. She changed her locks.”
“It’s very tragic, because she did what she could in her control,” Dsouza stated, “and you cannot predict what’s going to happen or what an abuser’s going to do.”
If you or somebody you recognize is in an abusive relationship, making an attempt to get out, and wishes some assist, name the 24-hour National Domestic Violence Hotline, at (800) 799-SAFE. You may textual content “START” to 88788.
Illinois residents might also name the Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline at (877) TO END DV or (877) 863-6338 (voice); or (877) 863-6339 (TTY). More than 32,000 folks contacted the Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline final yr – up 6 p.c from 2020.